Grandmother to two lost grandbabies

Author: Anonymous
Birth Date: November 15, 2013
Abortion Date: April 11, 2013

This has been three years in the making. In August of 2013, I learned that my youngest daughter had an abortion, in April-without my prior knowledge. Sad and disappointed-shocked; doesn’t even begin to mine the depths of sorrows. Sad that she didn’t feel she could come to me for assistance and disappointed as I’d been eagerly awaiting grandchildren.i grieved heavily for nearly a year. The following Summer, my eldest daughter shared that she, too had had an abortion and felt responsible for possibly influencing her younger Sisters decision. Both have become very quiet in their communications with me and frequency also. Heartbreaking situation. Neither appears to be doing any healing or recovery work-except me. They have erected boundaries and don’t want to talk about any of it. I often wonder why they even bothered telling me at all-if I cannot inquire just a few simple questions.