I was with my girlfriend of 7 months when she found out she was pregnant. I was 36 with no children and she was 27 with a 6 year old from a previous relationship. I had a house and we both had good paying jobs, and I knew we could make it work, but over(…)
9 years old you would have been. I find it hard to think that it has been this long since the worst choice in my life. I cant tell you how much i wish i could hold your little hand from birth to now. Id love to see how you grew up, what you ended(…)
When my fiance told me she was pregnant, I was so excited. I was so happy. I always wanted to be a dad. When she told me she was going to have an abortion, I about died. I begged her over and over to keep my baby. Every time I thought I had her convinced,(…)
Coming from a liberal background, a certain disbelief occasions the words as I place them. I want to acknowledge that my highschool/college sweetheart, were not safe when it came to intimacy. In a 2 year span, we went through three pregnancies. The first, our senior year of high school, was, I earnestly believe out of(…)
It has been 49 years since I took my, then girlfriend, to Seattle for an abortion. I was 22 and she was 20. Oh, how I could go back and make the right choice instead of the wrong choice. Our relationship fell apart after that. I think of it often. Back then I bought into(…)
Im struggling to write this year ill be honest, how can someone convey their feelings when they’ve done the worst thing to an innocent child? How do i even have the right to feel self pity in this situation, when im in the blame for what happened to you? Another year has gone by, and(…)
To my son or daughter, It’s been 6 1/2 years since your mother told me she was getting an abortion. I tried to stop it. We argued about it for three weeks but in the end, I caved. I gave her the credit card and told her I didn’t care anymore. Not a day goes(…)
My boy or girl, wow today you would have been 7, this isn’t your actual birth date though, we didn’t know it. We decided so quickly to take away your chance of life, and for that I can’t begin to tell you how much my heart is in pain everyday. Each day I wonder how(…)
Annie or Ryan, Your’ mother & I were deeply in love when you were conceived, We had been together for over 3 years & engaged for the last year with plans to be married the following year. We both looked so forward to having you that we had your’ names picked out for over a(…)
Im so sorry, Im selfish, and its my fault. I never will know what you would have looked like, or what personality you may have had. Im sorry for putting you mum through this too. I dont think anyone actually realises that i care for you and always will. I wish i could be mentally(…)
My Dear Son: I am so sorry I was not able to protect you.You were literily in the other side of the planet.I arrived to late to protect you. I so wanted to hold you in my arms and give you love and kisses. You made me so scare but at the same time so(…)
To my darling little Lucy, I’m am so sorry that I never got to meet you. I promise you that you big brother Elliot and your big sister Eleanor will know you existed, you were only 15 weeks but I exploded with love for you when I found out about you. I am planting a(…)
Sorry I couldn’t stop her. We were married, We both made good money, had a house. But she saw you as a burden, not a child. But I think about you all the time, and hope someday you can forgive me. As a father, I have no rights to stop her. I am sure you(…)
Dear Son Alex, I am so very you were denied life. I am sorry I did not protect you like a father should. I love you and I ask that you please forgive me.
I’m so sorry, my child, As I was so helpless to protect you as a father.