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I never got to meet you. U were conceived before me. In 1974 , I believe. Our mom was 18. She was confused and listened to family who convinced our mom to abort you. They even paid for the procedure. I saw and heard the pain in our mom’s face , explaining why she went(…)
I have missed you since the day I found out about you. I believe you would be 10 or 11 now. I pray life in heaven is more beautiful than anything you would have been through here. The things I would’ve done to get her to keep you had I known before. I only found(…)
When I learned about you, it was heartbreaking. I thought, “I could have had a sister”. I could have had a sister to play with, share clothes with, do each others hair and makeup, fight over boyfriends with. I could have had a sister. What fun to have the family tickle fight. Guess what I(…)
Many times I think of you. I wonder who you would have been. I keep the pain of missing you deep inside. Your death was kept secret. Our parents never told anyone. It angers me. I want to talk about you, and it want to speak out about how I feel. You mean more to(…)
My mom was naive and pressured to have abortions, and eventually made a stand and refused. I was born. I grew up poor, on welfare without a father as my mom danced, but I was encouraged to love reading. I worked hard in school, earning scholarships, a degree, and my commission as an officer. A(…)
To my younger brother or sister: I don’t know you, but I love you! Mom does too. She still after 38 years, mourns what she did and misses you terribly. We can’t wait to meet you someday soon! Love, Your Big Sis
to my big brother, I had always grown up lonely, wishing I had a sibling of my own. I have 3 sisters that are my half mine (and I love them all) but what would it have been like to have a brother close to my age!? you would have had half sisters too. I(…)
I am 65 yrs old and found out years ago from my brother that we have a sibling that was aborted before either of us were born. When my Mother was 19 she became pregnant by a married man and had an abortion. There are so many days that I long to know you, my(…)
There was always something off in our family. Maybe I could feel your absence. I think you would be 23 this year. I always wanted to have an older sibling. Someone to protect me and comfort me. As the oldest, I feel like I was given a role that was never meant to be mine.(…)
My name is Brittany. I am 21 years old and found out not long ago that my mother was raped when she was 18 years old. She was confused and scared so she had an abortion. She had such horrific nightmares and such sorrow and pain from it, that later in her life, when she(…)
My 2 siblings, I know you’re in a better place. Our father was so heartbroken for so many years when he realized he and your mother had done when they decided to have you aborted. He’ll never be fully healed of his guilt, but one Christmas some years ago some peace finally came to his(…)
I’m your sister and you are the little brother or sister I begged for. We share a father who was so so sad when he finally found out that you were conceived and destroyed without his ever knowing. We have two sisters now about the same age as your nephew, you also have a new(…)
Dear older sib, I know my mom regrets the day she aborted you. I wonder if I would have had a sister. The Doctor told her you would have killed her. The she needed more time to heal after having our older brother. She didn’t want to but Dad didn’t want to lose her. I(…)
I am not sure if you would have been a boy or a girl, but in my heart I feel you were a girl. I remember as a young boy feeling like I didn’t belong to our parents for some reason but not understanding and constantly asking if I was adopted. Your life was taken(…)
I’ve thought about you so many times and always mourn the loss of you in our lives. You have two older and one younger siblings; you and I are the middle kids and I’m certain I’ve missed you the most in our lives. Mom was under so much pressure trying to care for us alone(…)