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It has been 49 years since I took my, then girlfriend, to Seattle for an abortion. I was 22 and she was 20. Oh, how I could go back and make the right choice instead of the wrong choice. Our relationship fell apart after that. I think of it often. Back then I bought into(…)
Im struggling to write this year ill be honest, how can someone convey their feelings when they’ve done the worst thing to an innocent child? How do i even have the right to feel self pity in this situation, when im in the blame for what happened to you? Another year has gone by, and(…)
To my son or daughter, It’s been 6 1/2 years since your mother told me she was getting an abortion. I tried to stop it. We argued about it for three weeks but in the end, I caved. I gave her the credit card and told her I didn’t care anymore. Not a day goes(…)
My boy or girl, wow today you would have been 7, this isn’t your actual birth date though, we didn’t know it. We decided so quickly to take away your chance of life, and for that I can’t begin to tell you how much my heart is in pain everyday. Each day I wonder how(…)
Annie or Ryan, Your’ mother & I were deeply in love when you were conceived, We had been together for over 3 years & engaged for the last year with plans to be married the following year. We both looked so forward to having you that we had your’ names picked out for over a(…)
Im so sorry, Im selfish, and its my fault. I never will know what you would have looked like, or what personality you may have had. Im sorry for putting you mum through this too. I dont think anyone actually realises that i care for you and always will. I wish i could be mentally(…)
My Dear Son: I am so sorry I was not able to protect you.You were literily in the other side of the planet.I arrived to late to protect you. I so wanted to hold you in my arms and give you love and kisses. You made me so scare but at the same time so(…)
To my darling little Lucy, I’m am so sorry that I never got to meet you. I promise you that you big brother Elliot and your big sister Eleanor will know you existed, you were only 15 weeks but I exploded with love for you when I found out about you. I am planting a(…)
Sorry I couldn’t stop her. We were married, We both made good money, had a house. But she saw you as a burden, not a child. But I think about you all the time, and hope someday you can forgive me. As a father, I have no rights to stop her. I am sure you(…)
Dear Son Alex, I am so very you were denied life. I am sorry I did not protect you like a father should. I love you and I ask that you please forgive me.
I’m so sorry, my child, As I was so helpless to protect you as a father.
I was 18. Your Mom was twenty-something. We only dated a few weeks. She told me she was pregnant. I freaked out. I was selfish and only thought of myself. I was a young military kid, and she was a Vietnamese immigrant. I wasn’t ready for marriage. My life as an adult had just begun(…)
I am devastated over losing you. I wanted you so much. You would have been loved and cherished by your siblings. I did everything I could to save you to no avail. God forgive me. I am so sorry.
I’m sorry if we had to be selfish. That we thought our lives would be better if we won’t have you yet. And now, you’re gone. The biggest regret of my life. That feeling of being incomplete, I have to take forever. I regret a lot that I didn’t protect you. They thought about my(…)
Having an abortion was the worst thing I could have done. I committed murder. The really hard truth is that it has changed my life and I have wrought so many consequences from it that I don’t even know how to deal with it sometimes.